tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post3145342755964312675..comments2023-07-05T08:41:30.738-04:00Comments on Three Cats and a Baby: Giving Myself Permission To Be Sad TodayThree Cats and a Babyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16757969648902689785noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post-26492804355851532272010-01-12T11:30:14.256-05:002010-01-12T11:30:14.256-05:00Lisa
I felt the same way when I read about new wai...Lisa<br />I felt the same way when I read about new waiting families or that the agency was holding yet another information session during our wait. It just felt so unfair that they were accepting new couples while we waited and wait. The wait just plain sucks and its true that you just never know what a BM will see that makes the connection. It could be something that is already in your profile that you don't even think is special. Hang in there!wswedenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06188677588418689452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post-16696528080352025902010-01-11T19:26:17.871-05:002010-01-11T19:26:17.871-05:00Waiting to adopt is not fun, whether you wait long...Waiting to adopt is not fun, whether you wait long or short. I told you on Twitter I would be happy to help you anyway I can. I used to do speaking engagements on Networking and would help people who were with our agency. Your profile sounds nice. You never know what a young woman who is looking to place a child for adoption is looking for, they are all different. You really should talk to the director of the agency about your wait time and how many times your profile has been viewed. You can also ask if there has been any positive or negative feedback given on your profile as well. <br /><br />Thinking of you! KimKimberly Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00011334298854922476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post-90812274180890251362010-01-11T18:43:11.178-05:002010-01-11T18:43:11.178-05:00you are a beautiful woman, and one day soon there ...you are a beautiful woman, and one day soon there will be someone out there who looks at your profile, and thinks that it is perfect, that you are who you are, and with that a perfect mother. I know words wont help right now, but have faith in yourself and your profile, have faith in who you are, and the mother you will one day be...<br />Cry as you need to and know that we all care for you deeply, we pray for you everyday, and i know it wont help, but i believe that God will bless you soon...<br />Thinking of you<br />*HUGS*<br />Chasing a MiracleChasing a Miraclehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07174633053446862951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post-21715375797403497962010-01-11T17:40:40.700-05:002010-01-11T17:40:40.700-05:00I completely agree with Liz in being said when you...I completely agree with Liz in being said when you're sad. One day, hopefully very soon, y'all will be parents to a child that is meant for y'all <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post-62016368859130448112010-01-11T16:09:11.370-05:002010-01-11T16:09:11.370-05:00Your profile sounds beautiful, even though I know ...Your profile sounds beautiful, even though I know you're not a big fan of it right now. I'm sorry you're feeling sad but I truly believe it's ok to feel sad sometimes and to honor those feelings. I am so sorry you have had to endure so much heartache and waiting on your journey to mommyhood, but I know with complete certainty that you will be an incredible mother and a birth family is bound to see that too. Very soon I hope. *hugs*Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13797146094622280538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3923391970801545914.post-61249148113345268022010-01-11T16:08:01.094-05:002010-01-11T16:08:01.094-05:00I'm a big believer in just being sad when you&...I'm a big believer in just being sad when you're sad, instead of trying to put on a happy face...<br /><br />I remember going to an adoption conference when I first started out and someone talking about how domestic programs worked...she said she knew one birth mother who chose a family because they had a golden retriever, she had always wanted one as a child and wanted her child to grow up with one...it's just so unpredictable!InventingLizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08882590455596544329noreply@blogger.com